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To Whom It May Concern:
First I must apologize for giving out very little information about myself or my name. Because there are children involved, it was necessary not to give out any information that might identify them.
I have posted on this site a letter which I truly believe will help people unfortunately involved in the Get issue and not able to settle their differences peacefully. To back up this letter I have enclosed many Beth Din decisions, letters from different Rabbis which speak for themselves, and letters from other individuals involved in this case which will fully back up my statements.
They also show what happens if either party refuses at first to go to the Beth Din and then comes back to them only for the Get.
These have been sent through email to Jewish communities and many newspapers all over the world. Please read, print and distribute the letter, plus the corresponding Beth Din decisions and letters to your and other Jewish Communities near by. Also if you can, please try to put it in your shul bulletin and in any local Jewish community newspapers.
With your help this information can be made known as wide and far as possible, so that it can help people deal with the Rabbi's and courts properly. We all have to take upon ourselves the responsibility to make sure the Rabbi's particularly do not shirk from their responsibilities and duties after the Get is given.When the Get issue is finished many Beth Dins try to avoid dealing with all the other outstanding issues remaining, so it is up to all of us to make sure this is not allowed to happen, or it will spell the end to people taking their claims even for the Get to the Beth Din for closure.
Based on the numerous responses I have received, I wish to clarify several matters. First I have been involved in this type of situation and have experienced many of the problems brought out in the letter, so my knowledge is first-hand. Second many similar cases have been brought to my attention and they follow the same pattern. Based on my knowledge and experiences, I can say with confidence I have the knowledge to be able to write this letter and be sure of its contents. Again I repeat I have enclosed a number of Beth Din decisions, and letters which confirm most of the statements made.
I hope this information will help as many people as possible, to avoid the pain that others have suffered in these types of situations and that it will be used repeatedly to stop the injustice that is being committed in Rabbinical courts after the Get is given. I also have in my possession, documents which conclusively prove, that if one party lies about the other while in the throes of marital battles in Civil or Rabbinical Court, the other party has no obligation to ever give the Get, until the other party admits the truth openly and clears their name in written form.
The Beth Din decisions I have enclosed is just such a case, where there never was an obligation to give a Get by the husband, until the guilty party, in this case the wife would admit the truth. The Hebrew decision by the Beth Din in the last paragraph clearly states that the wife lied and defamed the name of the husband. Furthermore in this particular case the wife went even further and attacked her own young children accusing them of committing violence against her, using them to forward her own claims before the civil court. This is an example of how far someone will go to achieve their aims, even using their own children to accomplish their objectives, without regard to the damage that is done to them, all the while claiming to love them.
Depending on the case, either party at some time, can defame the name of the other, so the choice for both if this happens, is not give or receive the Get until their name is cleared fully to their satisfaction.
If you have questions, or comments please email me otherwise please print and distribute this as widely as possible including this page.
Just in case you have any hesitations in using the Beth Din decisions because there are names listed, I have asked and received permission to use these decisions, and letters on the site by one of the parties named, and the original documents all remain in this parties possession.
Thank you again for your consideration, and patience,
Kol Tuv
